You ask a protector for permission to heal an exile, and it pushes back... What next?

1. Validate

Do this with any fear / concern expressed.

2. Reassure

This response varies depending on the fear.

Click below to listen to a protector fear.

Speak your response out loud (you could record it on your phone). Do this ** before **** reading the "suggested response" provided. The brain is like a muscle: connections only strengthen when energy is spent!**

Protector Fears

This info comes from notes I made while listening to an IFS Online Circle course hosted by the IFS Institute. I recommend it!